When you’re not with your man, it’s never fun. Maybe they’re away on a trip? Maybe you’re just dating and don’t live together? Maybe they’re deployed? Whatever the reason, you always want to do your best to stay connected and let them know how special they are.
A key moment to do this is before bedtime. When you send a good night message for him, you let him know exactly how you feel right before his head hits the pillow. This results in you being the last thing he thinks about, oftentimes great dreams, and who doesn’t like going to bed with a smile!
If you’re looking for good night messages for him that you can text, you’ve come to the right place. Below, we’re going to share our favorites broken down by category. We have our list broken down into three categories:
- Romantic good night messages for him
- Long distance good night messages for him
- Sweet good night messages for him
Let’s get into it!

Romantic Good Night Messages for Him
Looking to send a little romance with your good night message? These are the perfect ones for that. We did our best to make them romantic but not too over the top. Here you go!
- Good night, handsome. Don’t forget you’ve got someone who adores you.
- Good night to the guy who still makes my heart skip.
- You make life exciting, even when all I’m doing is texting you good night.
- Sleep tight, cutie. I’ll see you in my dreams.
- Good night, babe. I hope you dream about me at least once.
- You’re still the best part of my day. Good night.
- I kind of wish you were here stealing the blankets right now.
- Sleep well, handsome. Tomorrow’s another chance to make memories.
- Good night, babe. Don’t stay up too late missing me.
- Sweet dreams to the guy who makes me laugh way too much.
- Good night, love. You’ve got me smiling even while I’m in bed.
- If I could choose, you’d be the last thing I saw every night.
- Sleep tight, babe. I’ll keep the spot next to me warm.
- Good night, handsome. Try not to charm anyone in your dreams.
- You’re still my favorite notification of the day. Sleep well.
- Good night, love. Thanks for being my favorite person to text.
- I’ll admit, I’m jealous of your pillow. Sleep tight.
- Good night, babe. Don’t forget you’ve got me wrapped around your finger.
- Sleep well, cutie. Tomorrow I get to miss you all over again.
Keep reading to see our long distance options and our super sweet message options!


Long Distance Good Night Messages for Him
Sometimes it helps to have your good night message talk about the distance between you two. These message options are designed to do just that. While it would be better if you weren’t apart, we can at least utilize the distance to make some really cute messages.
- The miles may separate us, but you’re always in my dreams.
- I’d give anything to fall asleep in your arms right now.
- No matter the distance, you’re the last thing on my mind each night.
- Good night, my love. May the stars carry my kisses to you.
- Dream of me the way I’ll be dreaming of you tonight.
- I miss you more with every sunset. Sleep well, babe.
- Good night, love. Counting down the days until I see you again.
- Even when we’re apart, our love keeps me warm at night.
- I can’t wait until distance is just a memory. Sweet dreams.
- Good night, baby. Imagine me curled up beside you.
- The hardest part of good night is not being there with you.
- Sweet dreams, my love. Distance means nothing to my heart.
- Close your eyes and feel me holding you tight tonight.
- Good night, babe. I’ll meet you in my dreams.
- Falling asleep without you is hard, but I hold onto our love.
- Good night, my everything. You’re worth every mile between us.
- Dream of us together, no distance in the way.
- Good night, love. Our forever is stronger than the space between us.
Sweet Good Night Messages for Him
Similar to the romantic good night messages, these options are just a tad bit more on the sweet side! These are fantastic ways to close out the day.
- Good night, cutie. Don’t let the bedbugs bite!
- Sleep well, my favorite person. Tomorrow’s a new adventure.
- Good night, babe. May your dreams be as sweet as your heart.
- Sending you a virtual hug to keep you warm tonight.
- Good night, handsome. Don’t forget how amazing you are.
- Rest well, love. You deserve all the happiness in the world.
- Sweet dreams, baby. Can’t wait to hear about them in the morning.
- Good night to the guy who makes me smile way too much.
- Sleep peacefully, babe. You’ve got my heart.
- Good night, love. May tomorrow be just as wonderful as you.
- Time for bed, sweetheart. Dream big and sleep tight.
- Good night, my favorite human. I adore you.
- Sleep well, cutie pie. You make every day brighter.
- Sending you a pillow full of love and sweet dreams.
- Good night, babe. Wake up refreshed and ready to conquer the day.
- Sleep tight, my love. Don’t stay up too late thinking of me.
- Good night, darling. Rest those strong arms I miss so much.
- Good night, lovebug. You’re my happiest thought today and every day.
- Sweet dreams, babe. Remember—you’re my forever crush.
- Good night, love. You’re the best part of my day, every day.