Official ‘How Well Do You Know Me’ Questions Quiz for Couples

Sometimes it’s fun to see just how well your partner knows you (and how well you know them)! The best way to do this? Use the How Well Do You Know Me Questions Quiz! This 20 question quiz lets you and your partner find out who knows who best.

And if you really want to challenge yourselves, we’ve also included our more challenging version of the quiz below. That’s 40 total questions for a ton of fun and learning.

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A Quick Note and a Quick Disclaimer

If you or your partner are the kind to get upset when the other doesn’t know something that “they should”, this may not be the best idea. This How Well Do You Know Me Questions Quiz will make you look like a rockstar if you remember everything, but does have the potential to ruffle a few feathers if there are things you should know.

Just keep that in mind!

Also, if you never want to forge these important things about your partner again (or they need the help), download the free LoveTrack app! In addition to great features like a date night planner and daily couples questions, the LoveTrack app also has a section called Things to Remember where you can store the answers to all of these questions and more so you literally never forget them.

Here’s the link to download LoveTrack now. Oh, and did we mention it’s 100% free?! Because it is!

The Official ‘How Well Do You Know Me’ Questions Quiz

Instructions: Each of you should take a copy of this quiz and write down what you think your partner’s answers are. Then, compare your answers and see how many you got right!

If you want a printable version, scroll down to the bottom of this section and we’ve got one for you!

  1. What’s my favorite color?
  2. What’s my go-to comfort food?
  3. What’s my favorite restaurant or type of cuisine?
  4. What’s my dream vacation destination?
  5. Am I more of a morning person or night owl?
  6. What’s my biggest fear or phobia?
  7. What’s my favorite movie or TV show of all time?
  8. How do I like my coffee (or tea)?
  9. What’s my favorite way to relax after a long day?
  10. What’s my guilty pleasure song or artist?
  11. If I won the lottery, what’s the first thing I’d probably buy?
  12. What’s one thing I’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet?
  13. What’s my favorite thing about you?
  14. What’s my least favorite chore or household task?
  15. If I could instantly master one hobby or skill, what would it be?
  16. Do I prefer a night out or a cozy night in?
  17. What’s my ideal date night activity?
  18. What’s my most-used app or social media platform?
  19. What’s my biggest pet peeve?
  20. What’s one thing that always makes me laugh?

Printable Version

  • To print on a computer: Right click on the image below and select “Open in a new Tab”. Once the image opens in a new tab, select print (or press Ctrl +P) and you’ll see the options to print!
  • To print from your phone: Copy the URL from the top of the page and email it to yourself so you can open it on a computer. From there, follow the above instructions.
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The 2nd Edition ‘How Well Do You Know Me’ Questions Quiz (more challenging)

  1. What’s something I pretend to like but secretly don’t?
  2. How do I usually handle stress—shut down, vent, distract myself, or power through?
  3. If I had a free afternoon to myself, how would I most likely spend it?
  4. When do I feel the most confident or in my element?
  5. What’s one social situation that drains me the fastest?
  6. What’s a compliment that means a lot to me—even if I don’t always show it?
  7. How do I usually express affection—through words, actions, gifts, time, or touch?
  8. What’s one thing I’m super picky or particular about?
  9. What’s something small that can instantly improve my mood?
  10. What’s a value or belief that’s really important to me?
  11. What’s a mistake I’ve made that I’ve learned a lot from?
  12. If I could relive one day of my life, which one would I choose and why?
  13. What’s one thing I wish people understood about me?
  14. What’s my favorite memory of the two of us together?
  15. What’s a topic I could talk about for hours?
  16. When I’m upset, what’s the best thing someone can do for me?
  17. What’s a personal goal I’ve had for a while but haven’t reached yet?
  18. What kind of legacy or impact would I love to leave behind?
  19. What’s a decision I’ve made that I’m really proud of?
  20. How has being in this relationship changed me?

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What to Do After You Answer These Questions

Once you’ve finished one or both of these sets of how well do you know me questions, there are some things you can do to make this helpful to your relationship.

First, share the right answers to questions you each missed. This can be a really fun time to learn more about each other.

Second, don’t get upset if someone forgot or didn’t know something you expected them to. The point of this exercise isn’t to determine who the better partner is, it’s to help you grow together.

Third, get the free LoveTrack app so you can write everything important down and never forget it again! You can go through the questions on there together or put them in there on your own. It’s total up to you.